Ok, so I know many of the people reading this are going to judge me and HATE me and I'm sorry for offending you, but I am only on here to look for guidance and advice.I am a 40 year-old married white male who has been married to my wife for 12 years (together for 16) and have always been faithful to her but circumstances have forced me to look for a woman on the side. When I first met my wife, she had a voracious appetite for sex and since my drive was also strong we had an amazing sex life right from the beginning of our relationship.During the same period, the number of users who said they would only be in a monogamous relationship fell from 56% to 44%." We saw a need coming from current users in non-monogamous relationships and we identified that there was a trend towards more openness, and even curiosity, regarding non-monogamous and open relationships," Jimena Almendares, OKCupid's chief product officer, said in an email explaining the new offering.Ok Cupid in 2014 added the ability for users to state they are in open relationships and to say how monogamous they are. You love her, you really do, but sometimes you'd like some . With about 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many reporting infidelity as the reason, some couples are challenging the boundaries of traditional relationships in order to keep the spark.
'Monogamy is a choice, but it’s not the only choice,' Mr Wade explained. People commit adultery every day, behind their partners' backs, and we want them to seek out open relationships instead, leading to a happier and more honest society.'Users can sign up for free as a single person or as a couple; after establishing their gender identify, they can then regulate their preferences, which can include men, women or both, as well as singles or couples.
The fact that there's actually a market for married people in online dating baffles us a little.
Why even get married if you're just going to be cruising around the dark online world of married dating sites?
I also make sure that I share equally with the household chores and cleaning.
I am still very much physically attracted to my wife and I tell her that I think she's beautiful and sexy quite frequently.