It is set to publish in Croatian (Profil Knjiga), Chinese (Shanghai Dook), Turkish ( Hello Mr. Gretchen Rubin, author of , compiled a list of 23 phrases that can help couples turn a verbal brawl back down to a constructive fight.The more the accusations escalate, the more narrow-minded both parties get.Try this simple plea early in the argument to ensure that both of you approach the issue with the other's feelings in mind.3. Please listen."You would think listening is a built-in function of any argument, but most of the time, we're too busy calculating what to say next to truly pay attention to our partner's words. Her TV credits include New York pilot casting for the critically acclaimed Freaks and Geeks, which won an Emmy for casting.
These are things that happy couples agree and choreograph so that they do not feel like work.Maintaining romance in a marriage is an art that is learned over time on a subtle level and then maintained with deliberate intention over time.Those couples who are passionately in love after decades together maintain romance by approaching their marriage with some basic activities grounded quite simply on mutual respect and good attitude.But they also add planned activities like couples retreats or meaningful trips, community involvement, and play secret games.Here are a few ways to sustain the romance and have a happy marriage in your 60’s and beyond.