Reading into that extra x at the end of his message, or questioning why he’s taking longer than usual to text back?
You’re either catching feelings for him, or you’re just ready for a real relationship in general.
Bottom line, leaving the gaff together is a clear sign that things are getting serious.
Think about it: not only are you going to bed with this guy, but now you’re going to Nandos, or worse, a fun activity like bowling. And the only thing you’re missing at this point is a label because, let’s face it, you’re slowly edging towards that ‘ship status.
Whether you want to be involved or not is up to you ladypal, but here are seven clear signs that you are heading into more-than-bed-buddies territory.
It sounds harsh, but a relationship amongst FWBs is meant to stay in the bedroom.
Having a friend with benefits is like a dream come true to most, but that doesn't mean it can't necessarily turn into a nightmare if not handled correctly.
Just sex, no emotional commitment; get in, get off, get out.
Let’s be honest, maintaining a FWB ain’t easy; there’s always that chance of someone developing feelings and wondering why a relationship is out of the question.
It’s the late night, “I got drunk with the girls and now I’m horny” routine. The no-strings-attached, sex-is-better-than-ever situation. The “I won’t have your off-spring but I’ll screw you like I want to” kind of thing.
As a matter of fact, one day when I called her on the fact that she kept pulling back from me, she flat out told me point blank that she wasn’t interested in having a real relationship, but she was open to just continuing to hook up with me from time to time as long as I didn’t start pressuring her for anything more.
Since then, we don’t go out as much, but we still have sex fairly regularly.