Rating high on the dark triad of personality traits doesn’t magically make you look like a clone of Stephen Amell who also smells like freshly baked cookies. Guys who are frustrated by their lack of dating success often look to some singular cause for their failure – especially when it feels as though they’ve been following the path that society and pop-culture has told them to follow.However, in trying to reduce their lack into a single cause – women like assholes, not nice guys – they end up missing the forest for the trees.-The dating scene follows the laws of economics; how value is assigned, and how market forces fluctuated historically-Not only are you allowed to start conversations, you're expected to do so!-Resolving the conundrum of showing too little interest or too much interest-What feminism really teaches these days and how this affects society-Why average guys are considered "a dime a dozen", and "nerds" get the worst of it-The teachings of ancient philosophers can help you be a better man and improve your love life too-The major insecurities guys have, what to do about them, and why that's not as bad as you think-The character traits that turn women on, and how to develop your personality-How to sharpen your appearance, get in shape, and get your life out of a rut-How to recover from shyness-Why you can't let rejection get to you-The female thought process-How men get stuck in the "Friend Zone", why it's often a scam, and what to do about it-The "Nice Guy" versus "jerk" false dichotomy, and how to be a decent person without being ignored-Screening out neurotic women and some other types you don't want to invite into your life-Avoiding pitfalls of sex that can ruin your life-Why being a sensitive, cuddly teddy bear - like you were told you should be - will get you nowhere-How women test us, how to respond, and why buying that drink gets you nowhere too-Making a good first impression and improving your conversation skills-Answers for flaking and other common aggravations-That great floating abstraction of "creepiness" and how to avoid that impression-Where to meet women-Dating multiple women while keeping drama to a minimum-How to rock the bedroom, how to deal with ED, and why porn will mess up your social life-Carrying a relationship into the long term in harmony-Avoiding common marital problems The secrets of the pickup artists are revealed:-Adapting your approach for every situation-Developing unique and creative openers-Putting the best spin on conversations-Showing that you're a cut above the competition-Flipping the script to have her chasing you-The art of flirtatious teasing-Directly showing interest the right way-How to interpret and deal with a hostile reaction-Discerning interest and disinterest and how to give these subtle cues yourself-Using humorous audacity to create attraction-Using the effect of popularity to make you a hot commodity-Dealing with "cock-blockers": other suitors, jealous friends, etc.-Why women chicken out in the bedroom and how to save the situation gracefully Discover all this and more! Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_input. Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_spinner. One thing you learn quickly in the dating advice business: some topics are more or less evergreen.Relying on outmoded advice, pop cultural conventions, and other misinformation will leave you behind. " The seduction community has found some answers: actually, sometimes it's the opposite of what she says she wants!Some examples of what happens when men act on outdated advice, misconceptions, and lies: Myth: Just be yourself. Myth: You're not allowed to start conversations. Learn this, among other items:-Myths and facts about seduction, and why men today must learn the real rules of the game-You've heard "men only want one thing"; the secret is that women want it too!
Men committed to the idea that women want assholes will point to Anastasia Steele as “proof” that women want to be dominated by “alphas”; after all, look at how many women got the screaming thigh-sweats over Christian Grey and his floggers.Instead, focus on his intelligence, faithfulness, and other great traits.Moreover, while nerd-dom is now mainstream (even cool), it wasn't always this way and many nerds grew up suffering at the hands of dumb jocks or b*tchy mean girls.But first, some context: Over the last week or so, I had several people forward me links to this comment from MIT Professor Scott Aaronson’s blog about growing up as a nerd terrified of women and trying to be a Nice Guy and how this meant that nerds couldn’t be keeping women out of STEM1 fields.As is the nature of the Internet, this immediately was an opportunity to comment on the topic. Flippancy aside, my purpose isn’t to add to the criticism per se; instead, I want to talk about some of the underlying attitudes at play here regarding nerds, entitlement and dating.