Then, you will have to decide whether or not to stay with him. Some people have a warped sense of reality and men are no exception.
It's possible he is using this as an excuse to control you. Foxie It will take time but he has to stop throwing it in ur face. For example, did he assume you were an item earlier than you both agreed to?
If he cannot do that the disease will grow like a tumour in his mind and it will soon have nothing to do with you and more to do with a sickness, like an obsession, he cannot get rid of the longer he makes it a habit to succumb to his insecurities.
The habit of giving in to his insecurity and lashing out at you will be the disease and it will destroy both of you as people. The least anyone can do if they want to be with you is accept you for whatever you've done - the good, the bad and the ugly.
It grows and grows into a monster so big you will live in its shadow and it will destroy you.
He needs to nip that in the bud and create a healthier way of thinking.
” explaining how proper dating has been replaced with casual hook ups and ill-defined relationships. And when I say I’ve learnt this the hard way, I mean it.
Online dating, and our ability to be in constant contact with everyone we know via text, email or social media make us unwilling to commit to one person, and more likely to want to hedge our bets. In an article I wrote earlier this year about modern dating, I used the example of a man I’d been sleeping with for over a year, who got cross when I referred to him as my boyfriend.
But if you’re not seeing anyone else, and you’re seeing a lot of each other what on earth is it if it’s not a relationship?
I’m not judging – I can see how easy it is to get into that situation.
Earlier this year, The New York Times published an article called “The End of Courtship?
He made the decision to go back with u so he should at least meet u half since ur r trying to make it up. In the early dating phase sometimes people don't know anything about each other and people date more than one person for a time! So you slept with someone in the early part of your relationship. Don't enable his complaints and tell him he's hurting you and what you have now. He needs to know why you did it and how you felt at the time. Don't let him make this a habit and cut out the babying.
Having been on both sides (cheating and been cheated on), I know that the insecurity is a disease.